Choices for Families
May 4, 2025
Pastor Mike Fillmore
38 minutes
Deuteronomy 6:6-9
Series: 2025 Worship Series
About This Service
Explore how to make godly choices that shape our families' faith and character, focusing on simplicity and safety in a complex world.
Service Notes
Choices for Families
Introduction (0:00 – 3:30)
Welcome & Opening Prayer
- Theme introduction: “Choices for Families”
- Invocation for guidance in making wise choices
Opening Illustration
- Story of family overwhelmed by busy schedules
- Discussion of daily micro-choices vs. deeper choices that shape faith
Scripture Reading (3:30 – 8:30)
Primary Text: Deuteronomy 6:6-9
“And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children…”
Supporting Text: Proverbs 22:6
“Train children in the right way, and when old, they will not stray.”
Pastoral Reflection
- God’s instructions as the heart of family life
- Teaching “diligently” through daily practices
The Challenge: Modern Family Pressures (8:30 – 13:00)
Overcommitment & Overscheduling
- Juggling work, sports, activities, digital distractions
- Creating sacred rhythms amid busy schedules
Safety & Security Fears
- Addressing physical and emotional safety concerns
- Nurturing faith that transcends fear
Godly Choices for Families (13:00 – 25:00)
Choice 1: Make Scripture Central
- Practical applications:
- Monthly family verse memorization
- Scripture at the dinner table
- Bedtime Bible reading
Choice 2: Prioritize Family Worship
- Daily devotional time
- “Sabbath snack” tradition
- “Wednesday Night Pizza & Psalms” example
Choice 3: Model Faith through Actions
- Demonstrating prayer in daily life
- Showing forgiveness and patience
- Teaching through service and giving
Choice 4: Create Safe, Open Communication
- Weekly family check-ins
- Blessing rituals
- “Sunday Drive Debriefs”
Illustrating “Simpler, Safer Experiences” (25:00 – 31:00)
Practical Examples
- Family that replaced TV time with board games and Scripture
- Tech-free meals and evening devotions
- Outdoor activities and community building
Response & Commitment (31:00 – 36:00)
Personal Reflection Time
- Silent prayer for guidance
- Commitment to home-centered faith
Covenant Prayer
Led by Pastor Mike for families to:
- Place God’s Word at the center
- Model grace and prioritize worship
- Create safe spaces for spiritual growth
Benediction
Sending forth with encouragement to make choices that honor the Lord and create homes of refuge, love, and wisdom.
Topics
family parenting faith choices scripture children