Choices for Families

May 4, 2025
Pastor Mike Fillmore
38 minutes
Deuteronomy 6:6-9
Series: 2025 Worship Series

About This Service

Explore how to make godly choices that shape our families' faith and character, focusing on simplicity and safety in a complex world.

Service Notes

Choices for Families

Introduction (0:00 – 3:30)

Welcome & Opening Prayer

  • Theme introduction: “Choices for Families”
  • Invocation for guidance in making wise choices

Opening Illustration

  • Story of family overwhelmed by busy schedules
  • Discussion of daily micro-choices vs. deeper choices that shape faith

Scripture Reading (3:30 – 8:30)

Primary Text: Deuteronomy 6:6-9

“And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children…”

Supporting Text: Proverbs 22:6

“Train children in the right way, and when old, they will not stray.”

Pastoral Reflection

  • God’s instructions as the heart of family life
  • Teaching “diligently” through daily practices

The Challenge: Modern Family Pressures (8:30 – 13:00)

Overcommitment & Overscheduling

  • Juggling work, sports, activities, digital distractions
  • Creating sacred rhythms amid busy schedules

Safety & Security Fears

  • Addressing physical and emotional safety concerns
  • Nurturing faith that transcends fear

Godly Choices for Families (13:00 – 25:00)

Choice 1: Make Scripture Central

  • Practical applications:
    • Monthly family verse memorization
    • Scripture at the dinner table
    • Bedtime Bible reading

Choice 2: Prioritize Family Worship

  • Daily devotional time
  • “Sabbath snack” tradition
  • “Wednesday Night Pizza & Psalms” example

Choice 3: Model Faith through Actions

  • Demonstrating prayer in daily life
  • Showing forgiveness and patience
  • Teaching through service and giving

Choice 4: Create Safe, Open Communication

  • Weekly family check-ins
  • Blessing rituals
  • “Sunday Drive Debriefs”

Illustrating “Simpler, Safer Experiences” (25:00 – 31:00)

Practical Examples

  • Family that replaced TV time with board games and Scripture
  • Tech-free meals and evening devotions
  • Outdoor activities and community building

Response & Commitment (31:00 – 36:00)

Personal Reflection Time

  • Silent prayer for guidance
  • Commitment to home-centered faith

Covenant Prayer

Led by Pastor Mike for families to:

  • Place God’s Word at the center
  • Model grace and prioritize worship
  • Create safe spaces for spiritual growth

Benediction

Sending forth with encouragement to make choices that honor the Lord and create homes of refuge, love, and wisdom.

Topics

family parenting faith choices scripture children